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But as everyone has said, you're still pretty young, and better now then another 5-10 years down the road. I like to think there is Karma, and your wife will get back what she deserves in the future. If the guy she is in love with knew she was married, then he is a real piece of shit. They deserve each other. No doubt about it though, if you are thinking about divorce it is a good idea to be proactive to protect your credit now. My girlfriend's credit was ravaged by her ex-husband. Chiefly a repossession after the divorce of a car she had co-signed on (that she found out about the hard way...when trying to buy a new car). Now she's screwed for another 4 years. Don't let that happen to you. If you go through with a divorce make sure you push to have all items that you own jointly(loans on) ordered sold AND SOLD. Don't underestimate your spouse...if she was devious enough to cheat on you, she undoubtedly would not think twice about trashing your credit. Sell any cars that there are loans on, close accounts that have both your names on. Try to get all those accounts paid off immediately. As hard as it is attempt to get on with your life and try not to dwell over it. Showing that you can be happy without her is the best revenge. Try to spend more time with friends to keep your mind off of it. The sooner it is resolved, the sooner you new life begins without her. Hope to see that bright blue car at the Starion meet on Saturday...there's going to be a good turn out I think. I've seen it on the freeway a few times going the opposite way and it looks in pretty good shape!
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